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The art of conscious conversations : transforming how we talk, listen, and interact

Title
The art of conscious conversations : transforming how we talk, listen, and interact / Chuck Wisner.
ISBN
9781523003303
1523003308
9781523003273
1523003278
9781523003280
1523003286
9781523003266
Edition
First edition.
Publication
Oakland, CA : Berrett-Koehler Publishers,Inc., 2022.
Copyright Notice Date
©2023
Physical Description
1 online resource (viii, 199 pages) : illustrations
Local Notes
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Notes
Description based on online resource; title from digital title page (viewed on December 14, 2022).
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Access restricted by licensing agreement.
Summary
"Ditch the negative mental habits that derail conversations and destroy projects, and instead discover a framework for forging authentic, enduring, productive connections. All too often, we find our conversations stuck in cyclical patterns of unproductive behavior. We listen half-heartedly, react emotionally, and respond habitually, or what Chuck Wisner calls "sleep talking." Conscious Conversations explores the way we can reframe our thoughts, emotions, reactions, and interactions so we form a connection from the very first conversation and keep our discourse positive and productive throughout any endeavor. Wisner identifies four universal types of conversations and offers specific advice on maximizing the effectiveness of each: Storytelling-Acknowledging and investigating the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves and others; Collaborating-Exploring the way our stories interact with other people's stories; Creating-Cocreating possibilities and discovering unforeseen solutions to sticky problems; Committing-Coordinating our actions with others to get things done. These conversations unfold sequentially: our awareness of our stories transforms our ability to listen and collaborate, which opens our thoughts to creative possibilities, guiding us toward mindful agreements. This framework makes it possible to identify, understand, and deactivate disruptive emotional triggers; listen with empathy to people with opposing perspectives; and forge relationships built on trust"-- Provided by publisher.
Variant and related titles
O'Reilly Safari. OCLC KB.
Other formats
Print version: Wisner, Chuck. Art of conscious conversations First edition. Oakland, CA : Berrett-Koehler Publishers,Inc., [2023]
Format
Books / Online
Language
English
Added to Catalog
October 31, 2023
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
Contents
Intro
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Contents
Preface
Introduction Waking Up in Conversations
Part I: Storytelling Conversations: Your Stories Are Not the Truth
1 The Birth of Stories
2 Emotions, Facts, and Stories
3 Opinions and Private Conversations
4 Processing Our Opinions
Part II: Collaborative Conversations: Seek to Understand and Absorb Other Perspectives
5 In Conversation with Others
6 Private Conversations
7 Open Advocacy and Inquiry
Part III: Creative Conversations: Trust Your Intuition
8 From Resignation to Wonder
9 Intuition and Presence
10 Co-creative Conversations
Part IV: Commitment Conversations: Don't Make Promises You Can't Keep
11 The Conversational Bypass
12 Requests, Offers, and Promises
13 Recovery Conversations
Conclusion A Lifelong Journey
References
Acknowledgments
Index
About the Author
Genre/Form
Electronic books.
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